Update!

I'm so sorry that I've been taking foever to update! >_<
Real life has been a whirlwind of THINGSTODO and I got stuvk in the middle of it D=

I promise I'll get the results out latest by tonight!

Spanking your child stupid

Spare the rod, spoil the child?

Here's some facts regarding the long term negative effects of spanking.

 Okay, I did a nice little summary for those of you who are disinclined to sit through 17 minutes of statistics and bombastic words. 


The statistics of the number of people spanking their children are UK and US based, so I'm not going to touch on it... much. However, the effects of spanking would be universal. So that is what I'll be covering.


First off, spanking as defined by the studies shown in the video is not child abuse. 

It is "striking a child with an open hand on the buttocks or extremities with the intention of modifying behaviour without causing physical injury." Kapeesh?


If I were in America, nine out of ten children I teach would have been spanked by their parents.


The parents who spank young children are highly likely to continue spanking their child into their teens.


More than half of American parents think that spanking is a vital part of teaching their children.


Parents are more likely to spank when they're angry, irritable, depressed, fatigued and stressed. Basically, when they're in a bad mood lah.


Then, four out of ten says that half the time they spank their child when they can't control their anger anymore.


Afterwards, more than half of the mothers would claim that it's the wrong thing to have done half the time they spanked them.

Basically, the stats are saying that spanking is a fifty fifty gamble with a lot of negative correlation apart from getting them to obey you in that instance of that circumstance.

Spanked children are more likely to be : 

• aggressive
• antisocial
• and, chronically defiant. 

Even minimal amounts of spanking can cause your child to be more prone to cheating, lying and bullying. 


If you hit and yell at them, they'd also be more likely to fight, bully and be mean to other kids.

Aggression against children makes children more aggressive.

That will piss off their parents more, and cause the kids to be spanked more frequently. Vicious vicious cycle there...


Now we've come to the most important part to most of the Singaporean parents. If nothing else can deter you; spanking lowers your child's IQ.


Spanked kids had up to a five point difference in IQ in comparison to kids who weren't spanked. 

And the more you spank, the stupider they get.


The slowing down of the mental abilities are significantly increased in 2- 6 year old kids.


That's just as mild as hitting the child on the buttocks at least three times a week.

Spanked kids are more prone to develop these problems later in life:


Personality disorders

• post traumatic stress disorders
• anxiety disorders
• depression 
• spousal abuse
• child abuse
• alcohol addiction
• drug abuse

Child abuse is the least surprising, because they were spanked as kids, so they think it's okay to spank their kids, or worse, when they grow up.


Sexual Problems:

• physically or verbally coercing their partners
• risky sexual behavious
• masochistic sex, including arousal by spanking.

 Life Problems:

•  delinquency
• crime
• poor school results
• unemployment

This can be changed though!


"When punitive parenting changes at age 2-3 to non- punitive parenting, children score just as low in aggressive behaviour as those in a non-punitive environment."

Basically, just stop spanking your kids!

Children can be reasoned to. 

If you think that they're too young to be reasoned to, then it's worse to be hitting someone who doesn't understand what they did wrong isn't it?

I was slapped once by my cousin when I was about five. I don't even remember what punishment it was for, but I still clearly remember being slapped and the fear I had of her.


I'm not saying to not discipline your kids, or to spoil them rotten, but there are definitely alternative ways to disciplining them.

How can you bear to hit creatures so adorable???!

My Teacher's Day Haul

My day started off hopeful. 

I went to the Buffalo Service Station with Hong Wei and the technician there said that my data miiiight be salvaged. Though, I have to wait twenty fricking nine working days! 

Gah, better than nothing.

Then I realised that it was Teacher's Day when I got to school.

WARNING:  Severely pixelated photos taken from 1.3 mega pixels phone ahead! But don't go! There's still some proper images later, I promise!!

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You can't see it, but there's LV prints on the inside of the ears and paws of the teddy. Mad cute! 

Actually I got this last week, because Valerie was stopping to join sailing~~~ *sad face* and I thought I only got a gift because she was leaving.




However, today I got...

Mary's Seasonal Sweets in Sweet Chocolate, Milk Chocolate and Bitter Chocolate from Jae and Kean Lee.



Then,

a green "Teacher" pen from Hashini from the next class.

When Lee Yi gave this to me, I actually thought he was giving me coins...

Turns out, it's a super adorable keychain of Dalmatians. My pictures does it no justice T_T

Next, flower, pencil and card from Isabelle! =D

She didn't write anything in the card at first so I returned it to her to write it. Haha, she kept trying to shoo me away when I walked anywhere into her vicinity while she was writing. XD

Next, from a set of three siblings... From the youngest, Amanda~

I'd ask her who the blonde bombshell is; but she is painfully shy... 






Then we have, Ethan!

Boys will be boys ahaha.




Now, finally, we have Ashley!!

I have to say that I was awed by her mad skillz~~~


But then I haven't opened the card....

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*melts*

I know, I know... Her universe suuuure is small. But hey! I'll forever treasure all these cards and gifts <3



It's my very first Teacher's Day as a teacher, and I seriously wasn't expecting any gifts. And today! Today! WOW?!


I had to stop myself from grinning like an idiot every five minutes on the train ride home. I was THAT happy! 

I love my kids <3 
 

*has the best job ever*

Clubbing Dos to Scare off Everyone =D

1) Agree to go clubbing half an hour before it starts.

2) Sloppily pat on foundation with finger and draw on eyeliner (with a brush, this time) with borrowed makeup.

3) Borrow a top as well.

4) Tie hair as childishly as possible.

5) Refuse to remove glasses that everyone thinks makes you look like shit. Or Harry Potter. =D

6) Arrive at the dance floor and proceed to dance flop around.

7) Every five seconds, shoo men away from pretty friend. Foam at the mouth for effect.

8) Flail around so vigorously that you turn into a moving sweat sprinkler.

9) Hog the dance couch.

10) Make that couches; when everyone starts to leave in pairs, or threes, to do the horizontal grinding.

11) Take stupid looking grainy pictures of the aftermath with pretty friend who is looking perfectly gorgeous.

I swear that I’m not doing the duck face! I just happen to have a duck-faced-like smile, okay?! And notice that Rin looks progressively sleepier in each photo, lol.

P.S. Don’t you hate people who bring their drinks onto the dance floor?! It’s effing fricking retarded! They always end up spilling it on everyone! And then they get indignant that people knock into them accidentally. My shoes are all sticky now!

UPDATE: They don't enable embedding =[ but this is a MUST WATCH lol